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Where is the Sun?

I’ve always said that February and March are my least favorite months.  February 2010 will be remembered for way too much snow.  And now that we’re just a few short days before March, freezing rain is pouring down and there’s apparently more snow to come before the week is out.

I despise the winter.  I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again.  I think I was born to live in a place without winter.  Unfortunately, I have not yet fulfilled my destiny on the weather front.

Sophie did venture outside the other day with her Papa to build a snowman.  But he’s French, so he doesn’t know how to make a snowman.  The snowman had a bottom and a middle, but no top.  They made a mutant snowman.  They used milk container caps for the eyes and that was cute.  But the missing head is very disturbing.  I’m glad it’s starting to melt.

Puberty

Chloe had her annual check-up today.  All is well.  But when the doctor and I started talking about the onset of puberty Chloe asked, “does that mean when you have a love interest?”  Both the pediatrician and I did a double-take.

Chloe had a grin on her face – proud of her extensive knowledge of vocabulary.  Sorry to burst your bubble, darling.  Puberty is when your body starts doing funky things, like growing hair in previously unhairy places, and you’re even moodier than usual.

I know, you’re all thinking, Chloe’s only 9.  But we’ve noticed some preliminary signs that she’s getting closer – terrifying thought.

Although Chloe is getting older, she still acts like a baby when it comes to shots.  She wasn’t expecting any today and when she found out she was going to be pricked, the tears started to flow.  When she found out she was going to be pricked more than once, the tears flowed even more.  Post-shots, she remarked that it wasn’t all that bad after all.  Our doctor is no dummy, however.  She made a note to order both girls the flu vaccine in mist form for next season.

Chloe’s Canine Cousin

There she is. Cousin Lucy. She’s about a year older than Chloe. Lucy is a great dog. Very well trained, very loving. She and Chloe had a nice time together. Chloe did all the talking and Lucy did all the barking. A match made in heaven.

We knew that Lucy had grown comfortable in Chloe’s presence when she allowed Chloe to lie down on the floor with her while she was eating her new bone. Unlike the way she sometimes treats her sister, Chloe didn’t dare tease Lucy or otherwise bait her. She affectionately pet Lucy and gave her hugs. She accompanied Lucy and her uncle on a couple of walks and ball tosses in the backyard.
We returned home from Austin a little while ago. I’m really glad I got to spend some quality time with Chloe – she had a great time and behaved really well. Surprisingly well. She’s at the right age to travel and I can’t wait to do more of it with her, and with Sophie when she’s older. Thanks to my brother and sister-in-law for a terrific long weekend!

Winter Wonderland

This is what one of the trees on our property looked like as the snow was falling the other night. It was so very peaceful and white. No traffic, no people. Just snowflakes.

It’s not so peaceful anymore, nor is it as white. The roads have been cleared and the snow plowed from the roads is black with soot. Dogs have left their yellow marks in the snow. There are piles of the white stuff everywhere. And so much of it that even if it has started to melt under the sun, there’s no discernible difference yet.
The girls enjoyed two days off from school. Not really sure why the second day was necessary; a delayed opening would have worked just fine. But no mind. Chloe had an impromptu sleepover at a friend’s house and Sophie had an impromptu playdate with one of her best buddies.
On another note, Chloe just read a couple of blog entries from 2007 (here and here) after I told her that she once enjoyed wearing dresses and was quite the fashion plate. She was skeptical. After smiling and laughing through the pages, she exclaimed, “Mom, you’re really good at writing. Those were really funny!” Now if that’s not a compliment to end all compliments, I don’t know what is. I’ll be going to bed happy tonight.

Social Butterfly

I saw this one coming from a mile away. Little Sophie has apparently evolved from larva into social butterfly over the course of the last few months at preschool.

There’s good and bad to this. Getting the good out of the way first, she’s definitely not as shy as she used to be. And she’s made a couple of adorable little friends, most of whom have curly hair just like her.
The bad will take a little longer to enumerate. First, she’s a yakker. And she’s had to be separated from her pals a few times over the last couple of weeks. Second, she hasn’t played the yakking game very well. She tends to do most of the yakking when she should be listening and learning. She’s not the only one guilty of this particular crime in her class – the yakking disease seems to be contagious.
And although she’s a yakker with her friends, she still doesn’t participate very much in class. The teachers are having a difficult time evaluating her progress because she clams up around them.
Needless to say, I’m a little concerned, mostly because she’s going to be so very young when she starts kindergarten in the fall. She’ll first be turning five about a month after school begins, so she will definitely be the youngest in her class (hell, she missed the cutoff by three days). I want her to be as prepared as possible for the onslaught of public school.
We talked to her tonight about doing a better job of listening to her teachers in class. When she realized that we were gently berating her, she started running away and talking gibberish. No big surprise there, either. This is a work in progress and it’s going to take a lot of time. And a lot of deciphering gibberish to make sure she’s processed the message.

The Hat

Sophie doesn’t like to wear hats. This is because her curls are so voluminous that most kids’ hats don’t fit her. In her young life, her experience with hats has been none-too-positive. Her hair gets caught in them. They’re too tight or too loose. She would rather suffer the freezing cold and turn into a human icicle than wear a hat.

A few weeks ago, however, we found this cozy pink hat. Sophie liked the hat, in theory. ‘Cause it’s pink. But when it came time to actually use it, the fact that it’s pink didn’t give the poor hat any noticeable advantage over all of the other rejects sitting in the closet.
That is, not until we were in the Poconos last weekend and Sophie experienced truly frigid weather for the first time. Suddenly, protesting the hat didn’t make much sense. And over the course of an afternoon, she grew to love the hat.
She grew to love the hat so much that when we were unable to locate it the following morning, she cried and cried. As if a dear pet had died. We went to the hotel gift shop to buy her a new hat. But she hated all of them them. Either they weren’t pink, or they were itchy or just plain ugly. She was stubborn about it, too. We told her no hat, no snow tubing. But she just continued to sob. I told her she could borrow my hat and we bought one of the ugly hats for me to use instead. One day she’ll appreciate the things her parents sacrificed for her.
After shelling out the $10 for the ugly hat, a miracle happened. We retraced our steps to the theater we were in the night before. The cleaning staff had already straightened up and we were told that if they had found the hat it would be in the lost and found. But we had already checked lost and found and it wasn’t there. I had resigned myself to the fact that I’d forever lost my cozy hat to my little girl when, upon exiting said theater, Sophie’s chapeau was sitting on the podium by the door, in all its pink glory.
Cheers all around. And a smiling Sophie, who will never take her pink hat for granted again.

Bumper Cars!

Chloe discovered the fun of bumper cars last weekend, ramming into fellow drivers with joyful abandon. Spinning in circles, going backwards, aiming for victims head-on, she was definitely in her competitive element. She did it over and over again, to the point where I was dizzy just watching her.

The hotel had a little kid bumper car space as well, and Sophie mastered the art of driving a mini-Jeep. She was particularly adept at going in reverse, although she almost ran over my feet a few times. Which, of course, made her laugh.
Sophie starts gymnastics classes this weekend at the Little Gym. We’ll see how that goes. Hoping she’ll actually participate since she’s always been skittish in groups. If she enjoys it, I think she’ll really get into it. She’s very coordinated, unlike her older sister. I’m looking forward to watching her in action and will report back after the weekend.

Sisterly Love

I am not uploading this little movie to exploit our little Sophie, who was cranky and upset when this video was recorded. But every once in awhile, Chloe puts on her big sister hat and Papa couldn’t resist filming this poignant moment.

It’s obvious from the first few seconds, that Chloe doesn’t know quite what to do. Sophie embraced her somewhat unexpectedly, and Chloe found herself comforting her little sister. You can see from Chloe’s awkward smile that she’s both flattered and amused. A few seconds later, Sophie turns her head and realizes that she’s on camera and her tears conveniently become more pronounced.
I love this video. It captures the girls’ essence and it makes me smile. We’re so lucky their in our lives.

Happy Birthday, Chloe!

Nine years old. Her last year in the single digits.

At 1:13 pm today in 2001, our oldest daughter was born. When I think of the evolution, from little peanut to pre-adolescent girl, I’m amazed. She proudly told anyone who happened to ask that it was her birthday today and she thoroughly enjoyed all the attention she received at dinner earlier. Between the balloons waiting for her at our table, the singing and the announcement the hotel made over the PA system, Chloe was definitely basking in the glory.

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