The Hat

Sophie doesn’t like to wear hats. This is because her curls are so voluminous that most kids’ hats don’t fit her. In her young life, her experience with hats has been none-too-positive. Her hair gets caught in them. They’re too tight or too loose. She would rather suffer the freezing cold and turn into a human icicle than wear a hat.

A few weeks ago, however, we found this cozy pink hat. Sophie liked the hat, in theory. ‘Cause it’s pink. But when it came time to actually use it, the fact that it’s pink didn’t give the poor hat any noticeable advantage over all of the other rejects sitting in the closet.
That is, not until we were in the Poconos last weekend and Sophie experienced truly frigid weather for the first time. Suddenly, protesting the hat didn’t make much sense. And over the course of an afternoon, she grew to love the hat.
She grew to love the hat so much that when we were unable to locate it the following morning, she cried and cried. As if a dear pet had died. We went to the hotel gift shop to buy her a new hat. But she hated all of them them. Either they weren’t pink, or they were itchy or just plain ugly. She was stubborn about it, too. We told her no hat, no snow tubing. But she just continued to sob. I told her she could borrow my hat and we bought one of the ugly hats for me to use instead. One day she’ll appreciate the things her parents sacrificed for her.
After shelling out the $10 for the ugly hat, a miracle happened. We retraced our steps to the theater we were in the night before. The cleaning staff had already straightened up and we were told that if they had found the hat it would be in the lost and found. But we had already checked lost and found and it wasn’t there. I had resigned myself to the fact that I’d forever lost my cozy hat to my little girl when, upon exiting said theater, Sophie’s chapeau was sitting on the podium by the door, in all its pink glory.
Cheers all around. And a smiling Sophie, who will never take her pink hat for granted again.

Bumper Cars!

Chloe discovered the fun of bumper cars last weekend, ramming into fellow drivers with joyful abandon. Spinning in circles, going backwards, aiming for victims head-on, she was definitely in her competitive element. She did it over and over again, to the point where I was dizzy just watching her.

The hotel had a little kid bumper car space as well, and Sophie mastered the art of driving a mini-Jeep. She was particularly adept at going in reverse, although she almost ran over my feet a few times. Which, of course, made her laugh.
Sophie starts gymnastics classes this weekend at the Little Gym. We’ll see how that goes. Hoping she’ll actually participate since she’s always been skittish in groups. If she enjoys it, I think she’ll really get into it. She’s very coordinated, unlike her older sister. I’m looking forward to watching her in action and will report back after the weekend.

Sisterly Love

I am not uploading this little movie to exploit our little Sophie, who was cranky and upset when this video was recorded. But every once in awhile, Chloe puts on her big sister hat and Papa couldn’t resist filming this poignant moment.

It’s obvious from the first few seconds, that Chloe doesn’t know quite what to do. Sophie embraced her somewhat unexpectedly, and Chloe found herself comforting her little sister. You can see from Chloe’s awkward smile that she’s both flattered and amused. A few seconds later, Sophie turns her head and realizes that she’s on camera and her tears conveniently become more pronounced.
I love this video. It captures the girls’ essence and it makes me smile. We’re so lucky their in our lives.

Man Made Snow!

Chloe and Sophie climbing the hill after a snow tube run. It was super freezing outside during our weekend away – temperatures in the single digits. The lake was frozen but there was no snow. What you see is the machine-made stuff. But we didn’t care. The snow tube run worked just fine. By the way, how cute is Sophie in her puffy snow clothes?

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Happy Birthday, Chloe!

Nine years old. Her last year in the single digits.

At 1:13 pm today in 2001, our oldest daughter was born. When I think of the evolution, from little peanut to pre-adolescent girl, I’m amazed. She proudly told anyone who happened to ask that it was her birthday today and she thoroughly enjoyed all the attention she received at dinner earlier. Between the balloons waiting for her at our table, the singing and the announcement the hotel made over the PA system, Chloe was definitely basking in the glory.

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Too Tired to Write

Just got home from work. A day that started out innocuously enough turned into a crazy afternoon. I’m beat. And have no energy to write anything. Other than to mention that little Sophie was exceptionally cranky this evening. She’s overtired. Just like her mommy.

Anyway, I filmed this little video when she was in a better mood earlier this week. She LOVES this song and has since watched “A Nightmare Before Christmas” several times after discovering that the song was in Tim Burton’s great movie. If you look closely, you’ll see that she’s working on her lip-synching.

Did She or Didn’t She?


My dear little Sophie. When I picked her up at school on Friday, she grabbed my hand and dragged me to a wall in her classroom, where the days of the week poster hangs. She pointed to the poster, apparently to show me where the staples attaching it to the bulletin board had started to pull away.

She seemed a little upset by the whole thing and I reassured her that it was easily fixed. I asked her if she had done it and she told me she hadn’t. OK, no big deal. She was evidently relieved to have shown me what was bothering her and we the left the school. She skipped all the way to the car.
All was seemingly forgotten until last night, when she started crying and whimpering “I don’t want to go to school tomorrow.” When I asked her why, she mentioned the poster. And she started crying harder. I asked her if she knew what had happened to it. She started to cry harder and after first responding “no,” she confessed that she did it, but that it was an accident.
No more than 30 seconds after the confession, she realized what she had done and adamantly recanted, claiming that her friend was the guilty party. I told her I was a little confused, and she continued to cry and said that she was confused, too. All she wanted was for me to let one of the teachers know so it could be fixed and I promised that I would tell them when I dropped her off at school.
This morning, she was very eager to go – apparently determined to get the whole sordid mess off her chest. But this is Sophie we’re talking about. She had no intention of doing the talking herself, so when I saw one of her teachers I mentioned that Sophie had noticed the staples were loose. The teacher thanked us for letting her know and wondered aloud why Sophie didn’t tell her herself. But after 5 months with shy little Sophie (shy little Sophie with her teachers, that is), the teacher knew the answer to that question.
I don’t think the teacher suspected Sophie of any criminal wrongdoing. But as for me, the jury’s still out. As I said, the episode was weighing on her. She seemed a little guilty. But until I purchase a lie detector test for family use, I guess we’ll never know for sure.

Paris


I’m watching “Julie and Julia” and feeling homesick for Paris. Have I mentioned that as part of retirement fantasy, we rent a house in France for several weeks over the summer? My husband would join us for at least three of those weeks, and my mom would come too.

The girls would finally experience the culture that makes up half of their DNA. Perhaps they’d even get comfortable conversing in French. Speaking of which, Sophie put two and two together today, and started exclaiming, “je t’aime!” Ok, she thought it was Spanish, but no mind. Papa and I were thrilled nonetheless.
We need to find a way to start introducing Chloe and Sophie to their heritage. We need to find a way to get to France more often. I’m not sure how to accomplish that. Airfares are outrageously expensive. And we’d need to rent a place to stay because our family over there doesn’t have enough space for all of us. In sum, thousands of dollars for my family unit to spend a couple of weeks en France. It would be worth every penny, I’m sure.
It’s a vicious catch-22. In order to have enough money to take that kind of trip, I need to continue working. But if I continue working, I don’t have enough vacation to take the trip. So, in addition to playing the lottery every once in awhile, I’m also hoping that my husband gets a promotion. He’s waited years for that to happen – so I’m not holding my breath. But – you never know, do you?

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