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Fireflies

Sophie went on a firefly collecting rampage this evening. Papa gave her a container and with the help of our 8-year old neighbor, she caught a whole bunch of them. And boy was she proud.

Problem was she wanted to keep them in the container. When I told her they’d get sick and die if she didn’t release them, she honestly didn’t seem to care too much. That is, until her Grammy told her the exact same thing (without any coaching on my part, mind you).
Then, and only then, did she exclaim “My fireflies are getting sick! I better let them go!” She ran down the stairs (I was truly afraid she’d end up tumbling down the stairs in her panic to get to the bugs before they croaked), out the front door and liberated the little creatures from their involuntary bondage.
I was very relieved that Sophie took a step away from the dark side (albeit with much convincing) and refrained from committed bugslaughter. That’s progress compared to a year or two ago when she happily stomped ants to death.

A Surprising Hug

Chloe and Sophie hug each other a lot when they’re not fighting. But this particular hug came as quite a shock. Sophie was upset the other evening – she had slipped and fallen on the floor. Wasn’t hurt, mind you, but she probably scared herself a little bit.

First, she came to me for consolation (have I mentioned that she’s been in a mommy’s girl phase recently?). Then she turned to her papa, as if contemplating whether or not to seek solace from him. But he was laughing. Not in a mean way, mind you. Needless to say, that didn’t work for Sophie. She just didn’t feel the love from him. She turned around again, and caught a glimpse of Chloe. Still whimpering, she ran to her big sister and grabbed onto her for dear life.
It was so shocking, in fact, that Chloe had to yell for me (I had gone into the kitchen after hugging Sophie) so that I could witness the HUG before Sophie realized what she had done and pulled away. The fact that Sophie reached out to Chloe for some love made Chloe very happy – the grin on Chloe’s face was priceless.

Our Button Table

When I went to pick up Chloe this weekend, we did some arts & crafts together. Yes, I know, hard to believe. I think it was the influence of being with my aunt, who is very crafty. It was also the influence of being in the country. This is the kind of thing one does in the country.

My aunt and uncle inherited a collection of buttons, among other things, from a recently deceased cousin. So what better way to make use of them than to glue them onto old tables? Chloe did most of the work – I was too methodical and my portion of the table took a lot longer to finish. It came out great. Now all we need is a little plant, and it’ll be perfect.
Chloe is ready to start selling her creations on eBay. When I took a guess and said that I thought she might be able to market them for $50-$75 apiece, her eyes lit up. She would like nothing more than to start a little business. I suppose I should encourage it. We’ll see…
If you’re interested in purchasing a table, let us know.

Chloe, Chloe, Chloe

I drove 213 miles to reunite with Chloe in record time – less than 3 1/2 hours. And she ran out of the house to greet me. And I got a really good hug. That was about 9 hours ago. In that time, she basically didn’t shut up, and we decorated a table with buttons, played the card game Spit, went to the supermarket so she could buy some bulk candy, went to the park and ate dinner. A great day. Until a little while ago.

Now, she’s stomping her feet and crying because I won’t play more Spit with her. Mind you, she apparently hasn’t had one meltdown the entire week. But now that I’m here, she’s starting again. But I’ve decided that the best way to deal with her mini tantrums is to ignore them. Because when I ignore them, she seems to calm down faster. And if I ignore her, her drama doesn’t bother me so much.
I really missed her. And I really enjoyed hearing all about her week, which sounded terrific. But I didn’t miss her icky behavior. At all. She just moved to the other couch because she’s pissed off at me. I’m still ignoring her. She’s wiping her eyes. Calming down. If she senses that I’m looking at her, though, she’ll start up again. So I am studiously avoiding her. So far so good.
I love you Chloe, but you drive me crazy!

Sophie, Sophie, Sophie

There is no doubt that Sophie has thrived as the only child this week. She eats up the attention. Happy as a clam not having to compete with her sister to get two words in edgewise. Happy to get lots of hugs and cuddles from her mom and papa. Happy to stay up a little later than usual.

And this weekend, Sophie’s going to be even more spoiled. Because while I’m going on a 4-hour car ride to fetch Chloe, she’ll be having special Sophie/papa time. What could be better?
Sophie just announced that she wants a snake for a pet. She’d name it after her friend Emily. I hope Emily feels honored. Other than her obsession with the color pink, she certainly doesn’t fit stereotype of a little girl. At least she has an interest in reptiles, and likes to run, climb and play in the dirt. That’s definitely reassuring and makes the whole pink thing a little easier for me to swallow.

I Don’t Think Chloe Wants to Come Home


Chloe is in heaven. Every time I’ve spoken to her this week, which usually lasts no more than 3 minutes, she sounded so happy and so enthusiastic, it’s terrific.

Chloe loves camp. Loves taking two-mile walks with the dogs. Loves spinning on the antiquated spinning wheel at the local park that no recent playgrounds have because they’re lawsuits waiting to happen. Loves Zydeco. Loves her handmade wooden biplane. Loves picking wild strawberries.
And to top it all off, she’s at the movies tonight, seeing “Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince” with her great-uncle.
Honestly, I’m afraid she’s going to be miserable when she comes home. When I asked her earlier today if she’d like to spend the entirety of next summer with her aunt and uncle, and go to the same camp, the “yes” was resounding. Hard to describe it in words – but it was a happy, emphatic, confident “yes!”
Are you ready for next year, Aunt Barbara and Uncle Brian?

Having Fun or What?


Well, it certainly sounds like Chloe and Sophie had a great time with my mom and aunt and uncle last week. Chloe, who’s still up there going to day camp, is having a fantastic time. Apparently, she’s been having such a great time that’s she’s taken to walking the dogs with my uncle every evening – a two mile promenade!

She has NEVER taken a two mile walk with us. OK – the main reason might be that we’ve never proposed taking a two mile walk with her. Maybe we should start. What a great way to ensure good sleep at the end of a long day at camp.
Among other things, they visited a dairy bar today. When I asked her what the heck a dairy bar was, she responded “ice cream.” “Why didn’t you say so in the first place,” I said. She’s even starting to talk like a country bumpkin now. It’s pretty funny. She’s loving camp. I told my aunt that we may ship Chloe up there next summer for a month! I’m fantasizing about it as I write.
Just kidding. I actually miss my big munchkin. On another note, there’s a mystery surrounding their matching outfits in the photo, however. My mom bought them during their vacation and apparently we’ll know more about it in a few weeks. Whatever that means. I can’t wait.

Sophie!

OK, I need to revise the highlights of our vacation to add one final bullet:
– coming home from work tonight and hearing Sophie, as I’m getting out of the car, screaming in excitement at my arrival. When I walked in the door, she ran over to me and gave me such a big hug I lost my balance and almost fell on my ass.
That was a really super end to a great vacation.
On the other hand, when I called Chloe to hear her voice after one whole week without hearing her voice, she tossed me aside after one minute because she didn’t want to miss her TV show. I suspect that as much as she loves me, she won’t be nearly as excited to see me when I pick her up next Saturday as I’ll be to see her. Oh well. One kid out of two ain’t bad.

Eight More Hours

The countdown continues. Eight hours until we leave for the airport. We can’t wait. Other than a Sophie carsick puking incident in the parking lot of a Burger King in the Poconos, my mom’s trip with the girls up to Ithaca went without a hitch. I was glad to hear that the car ride wasn’t irreversibly marred by throw up in the back seat and proud of Sophie for waiting to hit blacktop before gagging it up.
Not sure if I’ll be able to blog while I’m gone. Actually, not sure I’ll want to blog while I’m gone, since this is a vacation without the girls! But we’ll see. If I’m inspired and can get decent enough Internet access, I may just have to upload a few photos of the sights to make everyone jealous.
To tide you all over, here’s another Sophie dancing special. Enjoy!
Ciao!