The Joys of Reading?


Chloe and I went to the bookstore yesterday so that she could choose a new series to read to herself.

Her reading skills have exploded over the last few months, to the point where she’s fully capable of reading chapter books that are geared towards older kids. She still needs some help, of course, with pronunciation or definitions, but her progress is really exciting.

After a good amount of browsing the aisles, she decided to give Lemony Snicket’s “A Series of Unfortunate Events” a try. Since yesterday, she’s made it to chapter two, and seems to be enjoying it. She even brought it with her in the car today so that she’d have something to do on the way to the science museum. So far, so good.

Yet despite the positive signs, I’m interested to see whether she’ll finish the book on her own. It’s funny, because when I was a kid, reading was one of my primary activities. Sure, we watched TV, but choices were limited and there was only so much we wanted to watch. And although Chloe is a pretty precocious reader, it’s definitely not the first thing she would choose to do if she had free time. She’d watch TV for hours on end if we’d let her, or play on the computer. Reading is low on the totem pole of her chosen pastimes.

This saddens me. I recounted stories of staying up past midnight as a young adolescent to finish a book. I tried to explain to her why I was so happy that she was reading so well. The idea of being transported to another world, the wonders of using words to tell a story…I hope I’m making a dent in her growing brain.

Fewer and fewer children read today because they have so many other distractions. I just cross my fingers that one day my girls will come to realize that books are more satisfying and more exciting than any TV show or computer game. Fat chance, no?

Post-Prandial Joy


Sophie loves to eat. Eating makes her happy and joyful. Especially after dinner.

The pre- and post-meal contrast is startling. Before sitting down for her last meal of the day, she is usually horrendously cranky, which is not surprising – she is a toddler after all. But get some food into her, and she’s a new person. Tonight’s meal was couscous and chicken. She loved the couscous – it reminds her of rice. And like rice, couscous is messy and fun to eat. She left a trail of it all over the table, her chair and on the floor. I’m sure there was plenty of it between her toes as well.

After finishing her plate, she made the rounds of our plates, and helped herself to some more of the yummy grains. Once she had had enough, she started jumping. All over the dining room, all over the kitchen. She’s really starting to master the art of testing gravity – I don’t remember Chloe being so proficient at jumping when she was Sophie’s age.

Every night is the same. Sophie eats, Sophie’s happy. Sophie eats, Sophie sings. Sophie eats, Sophie dances and jumps. You get my point. It’s nice to know that we can rely on Sophie to bring smiles to our faces once she’s sated. Go Sophie!

A Few Random Friday Thoughts


I took this picture this morning. What do you think of the sisterly love? Chloe had taken a break from her computer to pose for the camera with Sophie. Sophie thoroughly enjoys watching Chloe play games on the computer. Our little one roots for her sister all the time.

Chloe recently learned about a new web site, called www.tvokids.com. TVO is the Ontario equivalent of PBS. We’ll see how long her fascination lasts this go-round. She hasn’t visited the Webkinz web site in ages. Her poor pets would have starved to death long ago had they been endowed with real heartbeats.

Such is life for a 7-year old (actually, she turns seven in a few days). Interests come and go. Obsessions come and go even faster. I’m bracing myself for the next big craze.

Chloe made more woven paper placemats today. Luckily, I wasn’t around for them. Otherwise, I would have pulled my hair out. Sophie spent the day at our babysitter’s place. She saw her friends. She loooovvvves her friends. I don’t think she has a real concept of what “friend” means, but she’s happy to have them in any case.

The end of my second week at work. Even had to go it alone with my boss away for 3 days. I survived. I guess I’m still capable of doing the office thing. It’s good to know. Anyway, we’re going to watch Michael Moore’s “Sicko” tonight. It will probably make us nostalgic for France.

I Love My Girls

I don’t have much to write about tonight, but I just want to say that I love my girls. That’s obvious, I think (and hope!), but I enjoy saying it out loud to myself sometimes.

They have their faults and they do things that annoy us to no end. But they also do magical things, and say lots of funny things, and are joyful more than they are angry or sad.

Chloe is the passionate, serious one. Sophie is our clown. Chloe likes to act like she’s 12. Sophie is happy to be 2. They’re usually strongwilled and independent, but my heart melts whenever display their vulnerability. It’s during those times that I’m free to console them and hug them for as long as I like.

And when they sing and dance, I’m simply happy to be alive – which is not to say that I’m not generally happy to be alive. It’s just that my happiness quotient goes up a notch.

Anyway, enough of this sugary sweet essay. I’m starting to gross myself out. We’ll return to our regular programming tomorrow.

Night Terrors

Poor Sophie. Poor us. At around 10 pm last night, Sophie woke up to the sound of my husband in the stairwell. From time to time this happens. But yesterday was different. He must have used elephant feet to go upstairs, because the screams emanating from our child’s mouth were like none I’ve ever heard before. And they didn’t stop. For over an hour.

My husband went in to console her first. Usually, a brief hug and cuddle will do the trick. But not last night. As soon as she hit her mattress again, the agonizing sobs continued…and continued. Until I came to her rescue.

We huddled in her big chair, and she wanted me to sing “Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star.” Which makes me laugh. Because I have a HORRIBLE voice. I took singing lessons when I was a kid (I tried lots of activities when I was a kid, lots of activities that didn’t last more than a few weeks). I learned how to breathe and how to modulate my voice. For my recital, I had to sing “Climb Every Mountain” and “Whistle While You Work.” Which was pretty ironic, since I didn’t know how to whistle at the time. I think that was my teacher’s way of telling me that I was wasting her time.

The wonderful thing about children, however, is that they love you for who you are. Even if you are completely tone-deaf. So I sang for Sophie, and soon the sobs turned into sniffles, and then into quiet snores. But it wasn’t enough.

Because when I tried to put her into bed, the screams started all over again. Until her dear Papa returned to her cribside. And she agreed to let him lie down on the floor next to her bed. Pathetic, right? He stayed there for a bit (actually, it might have been longer than a bit). And then he finally made his escape.

All was quiet on the Sophie front until about 3 am. Then the wailing started all over again. We ignored it this time, and she finally fell back asleep. However, there’s no rest for the weary. When she woke me up yet again at 5 am with her screams, I brought her into bed with me. Which is probably what she wanted all along, and probably the worst thing we could have done.

I am already tense thinking about what might possibly happen tonight. Thoughts of mixing spoonfuls of Benadryl into her evening yogurt crossed my mind. But I have to have faith that our little one won’t subject us to that torture again. Otherwise, I may just have to purchase the entire stock of Benadryl from our local CVS.

I Survived Week One, and So Did My Kids

It’s official. My first week of work is over and I’m still standing. More important, my girls seem just fine. In fact, I don’t think they even missed me. Every morning, Sophie would see me off with a huge grin and a cheerful “Bye, Mom!” Chloe would barely look up from whatever she was doing to see me off. I like to think it’s because we’re raising confident, well-adjusted daughters.

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Homework Miracles

One of the things we stressed to Chloe before I returned to work was that she would be on her own to do her homework during the week. Of course, we would review her exercises when we got home, but she’d have to complete as much as possible in the afternoon hours.

My husband and I had our doubts. She’s a 7-year old girl, and if she ever listens to us the first go-round whenever we ask her to do something, for a split second we believe that miracles really happen. But as soon as we start to see a little halo floating above her head, we have to repeat ourselves at least five times when we make our next request.

Needless to say, over the course of several days, we gently reminded her of the new rules.

When I came home from work the first day, things were a bit disorganized, to say the least. But it wasn’t really Chloe’s fault. On the second day, her finished homework was waiting for us when we got home. And she did it well, too. On the third day, she used her assigned vocabulary words to write fantastic, creative sentences in her spelling journal. She even did research -verifying how to spell “chocolate” by looking at the package of Oreos in the closet. She did an equally impressive job tonight.

There’s no way of knowing how long Chloe will keep this up. But I’ll enjoy my small miracle while it lasts.

America at a Crossroads

Last night’s New Hampshire primary was fascinating to me. As I sat and watched the results slowly trickle in, it started to sink in that we’re truly all in for a big change.

Who would have ever thought, just a few years (or even months) ago, that two of the most serious contenders for the presidential nomination would be an African-American and a woman? It shouldn’t be such a startling thing, really. What is amazing to me is that the United States, for all of our talk of diversity and melting pots, is so homogenous when it comes to its politics. And that until now, the closest we’ve come to diversity in a President was a Catholic JFK.

I can’t wait to see the current administration pack its bags and take a long walk off of a short pier. In fact, I’d happily vote for a barrel of monkeys to lead this country – almost anyone would be better (except those freaky Republican candidates) than the clowns who have made us a laughingstock in the eyes of the rest of the world.

That said, the thought of having Hillary Clinton or Barack Obama occupy the Oval Office is thrilling to me. All the more so because there’s a good chance it might actually happen. And it’s about time.

When I think about Chloe and Sophie, and what Clinton and Obama represent for them, I can’t help but smile. Their candidacies prove (political affiliations notwithstanding) that one can reach for the stars and succeed, regardless of race or gender. What an incredibly important lesson to learn.

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