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Sophie’s a Graduate!

Sophie graduated from pre-K today. An incoming kindergartner is she. Ceremony was adorable. “The Lion King” theme, with elaborate costumes and choreography and singing. It was truly lovely. And I wish I had some photos to display for my loyal readers. But I don’t have any.

I know you’re all wondering why. Probably thinking that because Sophie’s child #2, she simply got shafted. But no. I actually had excellent intentions. Had a look at the camera battery the other night, saw it was low, and said to myself, “Better charge the battery so it doesn’t go dead during Sophie’s graduation.” Plugged the battery into the charger – must have been Tuesday.
When I got home from work today, the first thing I did was put the camera in my bag. Left the house and realized when we got down the street that I had forgotten the teachers’ gifts in the hallway. Turned around and grabbed the presents. Got back into the car and arrived at the school. Distributed the gifts. Got our seats. Phew.
Showtime approached. Took out the camera and bragged to my mom about how prepared I was – having had the forethought to charge the camera battery days ago in order to be ready for the big night. And then, as soon as the words, “charged the battery” came out of my mouth, I gasped. I opened up the battery cover and it was empty. Forgot to put the battery back in the camera. Mother F***er. No time to go back to the house.
So, you’ll have to take my word for it. The graduation was adorable (a little long, but adorable). Sophie did great. We’re all very proud of her. And I hope that she’ll eventually forgive me for depriving her of the joy of seeing a photo of herself in her light blue cap and gown. At least she got to keep the tassel.

Relaxation and Recreation

It’s been almost two weeks, and I’ve essentially managed to ditch the computer and the blackberry every evening until the girls’ bedtime.

Two weeks. I’m fairly impressed with myself. I would have been proud to keep the experiment going for a week. And I do find that avoiding the electronics like the plague has helped me relax when I get home from work.
It’s also enabled me to play some new games. A role playing version of “Goldilocks and the Three Bears” with Sophie. Mancala with Chloe. And Sophie and I pulled some weeds together, too. The other night we played Go Fish. I’ve also played more gin rummy with Chloe in one week than I have in the last 25 years.
And for the most part, I’m having fun. Lots of fun. Granted, when they act up during our relaxation and recreation time together, not so fun. And don’t get me wrong. I haven’t yet seen any noticeable change in their behavior and I don’t have any particular expectation that I will – they still throw tantrums now and again, and they never give me enough hugs. More hugs, please!

My Cuties


School is almost over. Sophie graduates from pre-K on Friday, and Chloe says au revoir to 3rd grade next Thursday. I often return to the theme of how quickly they’re growing. But when they hit these milestones, I’m happy and sad at the same time.

Happy because I love to see them thriving, getting bigger and developing their own personalities. Sad because with every stage that comes and goes, the present becomes the past and what’s left are memories. Wonderful memories to be sure, but memories nonetheless.
The good news is that although memories are formed all the time, the future eventually becomes the present. With all the attendant experiences, laughter, tears and smiles.
My cuties – I love them so.

Chloe’s New Friend

We went to the beach yesterday. Had a super fun day on the boardwalk, going on rides and trying to win prizes.

Our first winner was Sophie, who won a cute little pink pig of which she was very proud. Chloe was not so happy at that point – she would have accepted the defeat if Sophie had simply benefited from a bit of beginner’s luck, but because Sophie benefited from Papa’s steady hand at the water pistol contest, she was a little upset that she didn’t get the same assistance.
Before we knew it, Chloe and Papa had disappeared into the arcade. Sophie and I were conversing outside when we realized that it was taking them a really long time to come back out. So we went to find them, and as it turns out, we couldn’t miss them! Chloe had just won her very own cow, which is almost as big as she is.
Needless to say, Chloe went from tears to elation in about a minute. And Sophie, went from elation to tears in about 30 seconds because her cute little pig suddenly wasn’t so cute anymore. What to do? The only thing we could do. Let Sophie try to win a big cow of her own. That, however, did not work. So we let Sophie play balloon darts. And she won! A cute little pink bear to keep the cute little pink pig company. And all was right in the world.

Chariots of Fire

See Sophie run. See Sophie run extremely fast. We took a walk around the block yesterday evening as part of my turning-over-a-new-leaf project to spend less time tethered to my computer after I get home from work.

The walk is probably about 3/4 – 1 mile long. And when I say that Sophie essentially ran the entire distance without stopping, I am not exaggerating in the way I am sometimes prone to do when describing my girls’ talents.
She ran and ran and ran. Hardly paused to take a breath. Outran her sister, who at one point collapsed on the ground from the effort of trying to keep up. Could it be that we have a track star in the making? I noticed that Sophie has quite good form when she runs. Not to mention stamina. She runs like Forrest Gump.
*****
By the way, it’s now been two days since my self-imposed mandatory post-work, pre-bedtime computer breaks. So far, so good.

Growing Up

It’s a very rare occasion that I get to see my two beautiful girls wearing dresses on the same day. The reason for that is simple. Chloe only wears dresses (and skirts, for that matter) under extreme duress.

However, she wore the dress in this photo quite willingly last night; she had, after all, been the one to find it at the store. And if you look at it closely enough, you’ll see that it’s a “French” dress, which was an extra plus in its favor.
Sophie’s dress, on the other hand, is notable for another reason. Anyone who knows Sophie knows that she LOVES to wear dresses. However, she’s generally extremely reluctant to wear anything that doesn’t have at least a hint of pink (the name of my blog strikes me as more “be careful what you wish for” with every passing day) on it. And yet, she wore this dress with pleasure last night. And the only nod to pink was the little pink purse she had in her hands.
I will end today’s entry with a quote from Sophie, who asked that I write, “I love Mommy because she’s my best mother ever!” To which I respond, “I love Sophie because she’s my best Sophie Bear ever!”